अक्सर शादी के बाद पति या पत्नी से सुना जाता है कि अब उनके प्यार में कमी आ गयी है, पहले वो ऐसी नहीं थी या पहले वो मेरी बहुत इज्ज़त करता था l मेरी पत्नी से मेरा अब रिश्ता वैसा नहीं रहा जैसा शादी से पहले था या फिर जैसा शादी के बाद एक दो साल था l बहुत सारे बदलाव आ चुके है, ये शिकायत कई बार पत्निओं को भी अपने पतिओं से रहती है l तो इसके लिए मैं कहता हूँ कि आप उनसे प्यार करें l तो लोग कहते है कि अगर वो feeling ही नहीं है तो प्यार कैसे करें
दोस्तों प्यार करना किसी काम को करने जैसा है, फिर चाहे उस काम को करने का आपका मन हो या ना हो, जैसे प्रशंसा करना, एक दुसरे की बात मानना, एक दुसरे के काम को सराहना, एक दुसरे कि बात को ध्यान से सुनना , तो क्या मैं आप से पूछ सकता हूँ कि क्या आप ये सब करने के इच्छुक है? ये तो फिल्मों में प्यार के सबंध में कुछ ऐसे दृश्य दिखाए जा रहे है कि हमें लगता है , प्यार करने के लिए किसी एहसास या किसी feeling का होना जरूरी है , जब कि यह सिर्फ और सिर्फ किसी काम को करने जैसा ही है, इसके इलावा कुछ नहीं l दुसरे शब्दों में कहें तो प्यार sacrifice है l क्या आप अपने बच्चों के लिए कुछ चीजों का sacrifice करते है, और वो त्याग वो sacrifice इसीलिए किया जाता है क्यूंकि आप उनसे प्यार करते हैl इस लिए अगर आप चाहते है कि आपका और आपकी पत्नी या आपके पति के बीच सब कुछ पहले जैसा हो तो sacrifice करना सीखें, एक दुसरे कि बातों को सुने, समझे , एक दुसरे की प्रशंसा करें और कुछ आदतों को जो सामने वाले को पसंद नहीं है, उसको छोड़े, उनका त्याग करें l फिर देखना , जो होगा वो चमत्कार से कम नहीं होगा l
Finally, We reach at the time where life is easy with technology and gadgets. Gadgets are much closer than our family member, like I love to take my cellphone always with me instead of my family member. Even It is not possible for us to go to bathroom without mobile phone. Some people say “It is used to make pressure”. So funny! Instead of this, one and a half year old baby knows how to pickup a call, make a call, how to skip ad on youtube, how to use google assistant and so many things, that are even not known to me till now. From where they are getting so many knowledge regarding these gadgets. Well, the answer is simple i.e from us. We can notice a child is watching mobile from a long time. But what about ourselves. We are continuously watching mobiles day or night. And we can’t put this aside that the children have more grasping power than anything else. They are watching us. Try reading books in front of your children. I request to all the pregnant ladies that please don’t spend your time watching mobiles. Spend your time reading good books, novels etc. This will surely help your child to become genious and extraordinary. I strongly recommend Sanskrit Books to develope children ability. Because in future it is only sanskrit language which is going to be at great extent and people with knowledge of sanskrit will be in high demand. Instead of this you can also read different languages books so that child’s brain can be more strong and able to feel free in every circumstances. Try reading books of motivation, inspiration & of success stories. But please avoid mobile phones. People can also say that we may have more knowledge in our gadgets. But guys you know little knowledge is more harmful than having no knowledge. In your gadgets knowledge which is available, is very limited. We usually listen in Hindi- एक छोटा सा दीया भी पूरे अंधकार को खतम कर देता है । But sorry to say, this can’t be lighten the whole area. अंधकार का दूर होना बात और है और रोशनी करना बात और है । हमें रोशनी चाहिए ताकि सब अच्छे से दिख सके । We have to lighten our life so that our children’s vision must be clear. Life is mixture of up and downs and the whole life is very small to experience all the up and downs. We must take ideas and guidance from the experience of others by reading books. So many books are available in market just to tell you about the life. Go and read them and guide your children. Thanks Himanshu Arora My Ideas And Thinking http://www.myideasandthinking.com +91-94637-67811
We all need one purpose to live in this world but
that one purpose is of our own or we need it from God. Well most of the people
in this world are saying – जो भगवान को मंजूर होगा वो ही ठीक है l But is this statement is correct?
A
Big NO.
There
is something in this world which is pushing us into the deep well of darkness
with the fear of god. We need to come out of this.
We
are becoming educated but still we can’t neglect that one big reason which is
always stop us to reach our goals and that big reason is we need the purpose in
life which is god given.
People in now days are so irritating and they have
zero tolerance. It is just because they don’t have their own purpose of life.
They are actually not so busy but pretending. They don’t even know the value of
time. They are wasting their time and money so madly.
How God will provide so many purposes to all the
people in this whole world?
It is just a matter of knowledge and understanding
your inner power.
Some people are constantly trying to do what others
can’t do, some are trying what others doing. But very few are doing what they
actually want with all their mind and heart. Only these people can be
successful in this world.
People who are finding the purpose which is God
Given, can’t move forward.
You must know what your heart wants. You must know
what is good for you and what is bad for you. You must know what is affecting
you or what is not. Then only you will become a successful.
Your purpose in life must take birth in your heart, rise in your mind and by implementing those in your life, you can set an example for others.
Before Death Every Part Of This World Must Be Explored. There Should be Nothing Left Unexplored at the Time of Death.
